Human psychology

Human psychology is a very interesting phenomenon.

I feel like i would have made an awesome psychologist

Sometimes i regret changing my mind after majoring in psychology and not pursuing the field further.

However, it still retains its position in my heart as a highly exciting subject

Why do two people behave differently in similar situations?

what governs their thoughts and actions?

The answer is simple

People are different, some are assertive, some are aggressive, some are patient, others restless

Some are trusting, others always paranoid.

What do we do when we face people like that. We judge. 

She doesn't trust me, why should i trust her?

Maybe its not just you. Maybe she doesn't trust anybody. Easiest thing to do..NOTHING...hardest thing to do...Get to know her so you can win her trust.

He is too short tempered. I would rather not talk with him.

Do we ever stop and think. Why is he short tempered. Maybe there was something in his past life that made him that way. Maybe he has to put up with a lot of shit and just loses it at random times as a result. Maybe he just does not like you. In that case i would suggest you to keep away. 

It is easy to judge, some people are just plain annoying. Everyone can be annoying at times. It is not expected from anyone to be perfect. It is not expected from anyone to like everything about anyone. If you like everything about someone, that person is not being honest. Something is just not right. I have experienced it. Some people show their true colors after ages. Which is fine, actually it is commendable. I wish i had that talent, but sadly those who hate me hate me in an instant. 

I am quick to judge, and i really feel the need to fight that urge. More often than not, the fault lies within you, if you realize that it becomes a little less painful not to judge. If you do not like something about a person, think of 3 things that you appreciate about them. It is not as difficult as it seems. Most of us are not as bad as we would like to believe.You will continue hating their negative traits, but thinking about the positive ones will keep you together. It is worth it.