If getting even feels more like work than it does pleasure, just accept the fact that you are a nice, sweet, kind, caring person. I tried to change that about myself...I tried to be conniving, evil, manipulative because I started thinking those qualities were desirable...and if I dare say "Cool" but if being sweet, caring and kind makes me uncool...that's the risk I'm willing to take..and I'm here to make those qualities cool again. Being yourself is cool, being generous is cool, being nice to people you don't need to be nice to is cool, being accepting of flaws in others is cool, wishing people well is cool, trying to change for the better is cool, seeing good in everybody irrespective of how much of an effort it may be is cool, going out of your comfort zone is cool, being a rebel is cool, being quirky is cool, being conventional is cool too, being ordinary in your own extraordinary way is cool, being who you are when it is easier to be like everybody else is cool..
I choose to be unapologetic-ally "cool", do you?
